I grew up in a family of workaholic males. My father has since retired but my brother is still hard at it, doing long hours and essentially prioritising work above many other things in his life. Prioritising it above the fun stuff, the lovey-dovey stuff, the stuff you wish you had done before you died stuff, and the ‘only happens once’ stuff. The men in my family are no different to many in Australia and I think it can have a pretty damaging impact on society.